Be like an oak!

One of the best tool to truly achieve what you dream about is one must be self-reliant. Being so is not the self-sufficiency of conceit, rather it a dare to stand alone. Be like an oak, vast, strong and firm, not like a vine which clings to get support.

 

Perhaps be ready to give support, be ready to help others as far as possible, but do not crave it.
Develop your true self-reliance, by looking with a different perspective on life, that it is a battle one must fight.

Be your own soldier, there can be no substitute for you or never be placed on the retired list unless we fight our own struggle with strong will.

Remember one gets only retired by death until heart beats we have hope to do our best.
The world is busy with its own, sorrows and joys, and pays no heed to whatsoever one is going through. There is but one great key to unlock success and that is self-reliance, self-believe and being a warrior of life, battling with balance set of thinking and rising from defeats and get re-established again!
Many of us are gifted with rare mental strength, and unmatched potential to face every odd but fail merely in life because the only one element that’s missing is self-reliance. Once this incredible power of self-reliance is attained it would unite all the energies and  help us to focus into strength and power.


People who are not self-reliant are weak and often hesitate to take firm decisions when opportunity strike.

They fear to take a decisive step, because they dread failure, often we find them waiting for some one to advise. Barely been into balanced mindset they dare not act in accordance with thier own best judgment fearing it won’t sustain.

 They start looking for excuses to cover the fears and draw the conclusion that all the attempts were unsuccessful due to others and at the same time they feel not appreciated and not recognized. They acquire a false believe that in some subtle way as if whole world is conspiring against them. 

Whereas on the other side one who is self-reliant seeks a way to discover and conquer the strongest fears and weakness within them that keeps them from the attainment of what they are looking for.
They would inculcate the power within to battle against all the transmuting barriers. 

They understand that all the greatest men in history, in each phase of life’s circumstances have been those who had to fight against all the odds on thier way to greatness.

Defeat for them is not more than as if passing through a tunnel is to a traveler. They are aware that they must emerge again into the sunlight retrieved from a back fall with enhanced motivation and strong determination.
There is no expiry date for our dreams and we can if we have strong determination to do so.

Remember honest and true work, along with constant and sincere purposes and efforts never really fails.
Though one may get tired trying hard to get success and may attempt to give up but it should be understood that though last attempt seemed to be a wasted effort, it will prove to us a new set of thinking and learning how to walk amidst the chaos. 

Failures will prove to us the inspiration of possible successes that are yet to be explored.
No matter what statistics of failure describe to one and half-blind world of critics may be fiercely invading our peace of mind and we may feel that everything is over, but never underestimate the power of self-believe and willpower.

Failures need not dishearten us, they should prove sources of new strength. Observe the nature, it has tremendous ways to unfold the keywords that one may get inspired.
The rocky way may prove to be safe though long than the slippery path of smoothness that may be short.
Birds fly best with the wind against it. Ships do not progress when on shore they are supposed to sail, unless they sail they won’t move ahead. 

Giving up is a temporary emotional barrier and looks far more easy way but that’s not the only solution.
Stay Motivated Stay Inspired!

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Think about it!

The best way to rise from defeat  is to remember why you started it initially. As I do believe that every obstacle in our path is just  a reminder to go back and reignite that spark that holds the inscription code for you to start your journey that was solely on your choices to mark a change thus making your presence in the  journal of life.
Other wise we all are just surviving not living…
Think about it!

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Keep smiling keep shining
Inderjit Kaur

Inderjit Kaur

A writer’s life fanciful adventure?

A writer who encapsulates the lore of some past and present events or probably coherent the enchanting tales in his or her story is not sure if the work  would be accepted by the readers.

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At times he or she is happy to get a hamburger and fries with the royalty cheque.
In India we can manage at least one wada pav. Well the issue is not the reduced numbers of books from the bookshelves but the credit goes to the technical aspects of fast paced life.
Lack of time and change of personal choices hardly I see any book lover as earlier times.
All those who managed to get the names established via brand names extraordinarily were lucky enough.
We writers are storytellers  who instill hope again and again and again.
With every word we write we try to write better than the previous so that the finished work is an eye catch for the readers.
It takes almost average 6 months to a year to write an average book and anycase any genre. Hardly I came across to some of the writers who could write up in a month or two.
Thus the bottom line is it takes a great time and efforts for the writing to make it best thought provoking or captivating or a page turner.
Writers are patient and work effectively and I’m so proud to be able to be counted as one of them.
The amount of time and energy required to get from chapter 1st to 2nd and so on is just priceless. Writers do a tremendous job to pan out the stories, chapters, plots, characters, imaginations, connectedness, also at times plan on the walls or working place mapping out the story so that our readers get a awesome read.
But writers do get low at times when the book doesn’t go well with sales.
We tend to make failures very personal. Yes I do agree picking yourself up and dusting yourself off  isn’t that easy. It’s easy to imagine but much more difficult to do in practice.
The only reason why we do pursue our dreams is first we must accept the fact that our egos want us to dream big as they believe we can accomplish great things and there’s nothing wrong with that as great things do desire that greatness. This leads us to achieve our goals and we do accomplish things others believed to be impossible.
So to all my writing fraternity be aware of the little things that provides an easy way to get the best and  the most.
Let’s celebrate little victories. What does this little victory do?
Well they allow you and me to gain momentum.
With each little win we tend to feel more comfortable and positive about ourselves.
We can now once again find the same enthusiasm and are passionate about our work.
We feel reinvigorated and tend to seek fascination in our work and indirectly our journey as an writer.
Without this gained momentum we would have given up so very easily at first place finding no solace in life.
This little wins boost us reminding us that greater victories are lying ahead comforting us to stick around and not letting us to give up.
Little victories make us learn more about life uncertainties and makes failures bearable.
Be privileged to be able to offer the best of your abilities.
Three cheers to my writer friends.

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Take care
Keep smiling keep shining.
Inderjit Kaur

Dealing with dead ends…A year that left behind lessons.

Dealing with dead ends..
A year that left behind lessons.

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Dealing with the dead ends
perhaphs the year which just waved off has been a busy one. While we may have let some of the mushrooming issues slide by, now it’s important to tend to them before the time plays tricky lessons.
Our first initiative step to deal with dead ends now is to understand why did we opted to avoid the issues in the first place. And perhaphs we do hate confrontation, and we did felt like we didn’t have enough time to deal with xyz issues back then, what soever the reasons we need to be just honest with ourself and make an effort to catch our continued avoidance patterns. Precisely no one would  appreciate past issues lingering onto a fresh calendar.
Hence we need to stay accountable with ourself first.
While the past year was filled with successes and accomplishments there were some bumps and troubles that lead to missteps along the way. Strong and positive people would take a moment to pause and reflect on the mistakes that were made during the past year.
And the thing that matters is accountability and is important, especially if we are in a transition phase, and even if we didn’t deal with things correctly in real time, self-reflection and awareness could better prepare us for the inevitable issues of the coming phase of life.
Thus we need to be prepared to acknowledge our mistakes as they come, and more importantly, we need to commit moving forward in such a way that puts lessons learned into action and a positively filled attitude that helps us move beyond the horizon.
Keep smiling, keep shining.
Inderjit kaur.

-APPOINTMENT WITH FUTURE?

Yes, I was disappointed with the judgement of God.
I had expected a lot and tried to get appointments in the future and when the appointments weren’t kept then, it often made me feel dejected and this forced me to dive into deep pools of negativity and I was entangled in  the webs of emotions. But somehow I decided to search for the reasons and seek the answers to my ‘Why’ that was successful to diminish my faith. As I had lost all hopes towards life I’ve made up my mind to  search the main cause to the disappointments, as always it is framed  that don’t expect something so that you are dejected in the end when the expectations aren’t fulfilled.  For me this concept was a little different which sufficed me without letting my expectations go low and didn’t let them get faded away. I figured out how to respond to life in a more positive way even if expectations aren’t met.
Yes, I completely changed my perceptions towards brighter side of  the life for searching not the “Why” but I tried to figure out the concept  –  “Now what?.”
How to solve the troubling issues, what is done is done, whats already passed can’t be
re-winded.
Hence, now I just need to find next probabilities, to match the best solutions.
Often though I had issues with God, for not replying to my prayers, but I did learn the fact that every time I was denied, I was boarded to a new set of opportunities.
This re directed my path towards a purpose filled destination throughout life, which made me learn to face life the way I was supposed to face.
I did experience that whatsoever life projects in form of hardships or troubles because God wants us to walk on the tougher path making us more strong that our lives demands us to be probably  because God himself wants us to be more stronger emotionally, to get fitted in the tougher world outside.

Keep smiling keep shining.

A letter to Santa🎅 from a daughter who lost her father.

A letter from a daughter to her departed father, reliving all the memories from the first day of her school to her Father’s death in hospital.

Dear Santa, 🎅
Please do hand over this poetry📖✒
of mine to my loving father who’s been on a walk towards divine.
🌷⭐🍃⭐
I wait for him but I know he wouldn’t be here,
lost in his silence is my patience that I wrote in few lines……..

A broken soul that lies behind
the mirage of her perfect smile
like a wounded bird with out the wings waiting for a flight.
Tears hidden in violets resting along with roses in dew,
some tears cried, some tears in pain, some tears dried, some creeping back in eyes.
Some tears clinched to soul to
re pine behind the mirage of her smile that she claims to be perfect but has a tormented soul.
To her father she penned in few words that flowed from her parched heart.
Narrating the day when he took her to school to the last breath he took waving her goodbye.
He acclaimed his happiness to be proud father of the little girl in the crowd standing outside the gate of school holding his hands tight; for being the first day of the school she is gripped in fears.
He walked all the way that day held her hands all the way.
But he almost cried to hear her say:
” Father, please don’t go away and don’t leave me alone.
I’ll feel so sad if you go away,
I might need you, in every step I lay for its a new unseen way
I’ll miss you when you go away.
I plead you can’t you stay?.”

Father said ” Don’t you cry my little angel, you’ll be fine so dry your tears.
You’ll have me always in your heart even if I’m far away.
We will be always together you’re in my memories and I’m in your heart.”

She still relives those memories, he stood upfront on her wedding day as he tried to hide those rolling tears but wasn’t successful when he sees his daughter walked away in her new life in a new home.
Later he is rejoiced to see her dancing in joy when she’s blessed with a child in her life.
Tears rolled once again in joy but she catches the glance at the end to see his eyes brimmed in tears she leans and whispers “Father I’m fine and now I need to go. I’ll miss you all the way you’re in my heart we will be together though we are apart.”
Father replies, ” I’m fine and I  bless you my child be happy for always and you’re in my heart.”

Time page changed and broke as   charred when she hears him to be not well.
She came in hospital bed leans down to kiss his forehead.
He smiles holding her hand tight wishes he had some time to fight back and save his life.
Once again is the darkest night they sat together quite and sad as she couldn’t see her dying father, tears are hard to hide.
She claims in calm voice,
“Father, please don’t go away so far, I still need you!.”
“Little angel, all that I’ve to say,
I want to stay forever with you,    but I’ve to depart.
A last moment of togetherness now and I’ll be in your heart for always though we will be far away.”
Speechless she stands to look the abandoned stare and in her heart she knew the time has stopped.
Broken offerings jaded prayers
heart bleeds in pain, she claimed time stealed away like a dew drop.
She wished it was a dream
but wraps her tormented soul and whispers
“I wish and pray father be in  peace wherever you stay.
For you’ll be in my heart always for you taught me to be in patience at all my difficult times.
Words hear now  the silence
searching the moon in the darkest clouds……
I know,
I’ll never get lost on this way.
Cause I know, that though far away you’ll be always there with me in my heart!”.

I love you dad…

Inderjit kaur🌷🍃

Keep smiling, keep shining….

Santa’s letter to a warrior fighting with life.

I’m inspired, as I witness your relentless devotion and hard work figuring out the purposes, that makes the path more successful towards attainment.

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I’m awed to see how you’ve been overcoming your trail and adversities,  standing on the scorched earth amidst  the unending sessions  of unpredictable times and ready to face the life’s  curves of ups and downs.
Yet trying to step forward, you make a  successful leap  towards the blur light that you’re able to see at the other side of dark tunnel.
This quality of your patience that you practice amazes me and let me draw your attention to the fact that this act of your adapting patience as a key calibres your performance as an elite.
You stand out from others in every aspect. You make me feel strong  and keeps me motivated and inspired as I see  you battling your fears and doubts transcending them to attaining your achievements.
So on this day I want you to know that you are called here for a mission.
A mission to walk courageously the walk of your life and that you have to keep working upon fearlessly in continuity anything less would be nothing else than a surrender.
But do remember warriors, heroes never surrender as they aren’t here just to walk but pursue a personal victory in every small accomplishment that would have never been possible without a decision taken to begin with a fresh start after every fall.
A decision to make a difference.
A decision to make a change challenging the same circumstances and to witness a victory over your regular performance.
A win over your best abilities.
A success story that’ll be marked as a milestone.
Warrior’s don’t give up one step short of destinations.
Yes, certainly there’s a fair chance that you’ll encounter frustrating situations that may seem to be unending, but always remember the master key to decode these complexities.
And that is ‘PATIENCE.’
Keep calm and concentrate on the work that is in your hand or the current situation or may be the project that needs to be completed.
With patience and calmed mind you’ll be able to manifest all that’s unachievable.
You’ll rediscover passion for every work you take in your hands. And you’ll witness the unsettled and delayed projects dusting off successfully completed in time. You’ll be able to turn every initiative into a success. You’re entitled to great victories when you are able to believe in self.
As soon as you’re aware of your strength and potential each target  or goal that you set would be reachable.
You’ll attain more confidence in yourself.
Extremely bizarre coincidences would keep you worried about life sometimes but still you need to continue your walk of life like a strong warrior,  because I’m totally convinced by your potential and aware that you’ve the tenacity and determination that even you’re not awared of.
Just pause for a moment to review the life that you’ve been travelling so far and think about all the obstacles that you’ve overcome so far in the journey.
You’ve successfully survived 100% all those hard time with your self believe.

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Using the building blocks of experiences,  you have build your own tower incessantly no matter how many times you’ve fallen  and your tower has been demolished.
With every fall, you did attain a more positive attitude towards life and that helped you to avoid the same mistake twice and hence I salute you for that makes you stand different from the crowd.

I’m inspired by your effortless walk on this path of life, no matter how many barriers happened to distract you and tried to influence you to give up.
But you kept walking more confident after every little break and obstacles that you’ve faced  on the way.
Thus you’ve successfully raised the tower of your life strong and progressively  higher than before.
Thus you stand tough ready to face what’s to be faced on this path of life with a smile on your face that has inspired so many.

This is your friend Santa, touched by your approach to life as a positive thinker signing off wishing you happiness and success in abundance.
Merry Christmas and a happy new year.
❄🎅🌷🍃❄
Warm regards,
Santa.