Shift your life, Master your mindset, battleproof your confidence.

We all have the ability to pivot under any conditions and remember that circumstances do not make a man, they reveal him.

By feeling cheerful throughout the day, we become an Instrument of peace. Spend some time in silence it is most powerful and rewarding experience.

Nothing you do will make everything perfect.Your job is to live your best life not suffer because sometimes we need to just realize that how little we need in order to be satisfied and at peace.

Stop being upset about everything as it would not respond the way we expect to. Hard but that’s life all about! Accept the truth and be grateful, for your life matters.

Distance yourself for a while from the things that make you feel low or negative influence as they would only drain your energy.

Focus only on what can be changed and don’t dwell on why things didn’t work or what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do from here onwards move on is not easy it would take some time.

Spend your energy moving forward seeking the opportunity to work best when everything fails.

When we get stuck into downfalls or failure or heartbreak we believe that life is all about that’s past but the truth is life is about present circumstances.

We need to be complied with the new beginning letting go that doesn’t reflect the growth that which remains stagnant, just let it go. When we let go we believe in self, we believe that there is a bright tomorrow.

Remember peace of mind is when we are able to live in the present moment.


Take charge of your life now! 

Master your mindset, battleproof your confidence, own your highest power to wake up each day radiating hope, strength, wisdom and love, regardless of whether you’re at the peak of the mountain or lost in the valley of heartbreak.

Focus to live the rest of your life at iconic levels of happiness, prosperity and influence.


Smile and overcome your challenges, no matter what your troubles are, there are people who are experiencing much worse.

It is human tendency that when bad things happen to us, we overlook the fact that even the most vibrantly successful people deal with challenges, troubles, and setbacks only the difference between those individuals who soldier on until they achieve their goals and those who give up is the determination.

The goal is not to change who you are but to become more of who you are at your best while facing adversities and life challenges!

Remember a bad day is simply a test of your patience and commitment as long as you stay dedicated to the task at hand, you’ll shake off negative feelings and get the job done even when things conspire against you.

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Be like an oak!

One of the best tool to truly achieve what you dream about is one must be self-reliant. Being so is not the self-sufficiency of conceit, rather it a dare to stand alone. Be like an oak, vast, strong and firm, not like a vine which clings to get support.

 

Perhaps be ready to give support, be ready to help others as far as possible, but do not crave it.
Develop your true self-reliance, by looking with a different perspective on life, that it is a battle one must fight.

Be your own soldier, there can be no substitute for you or never be placed on the retired list unless we fight our own struggle with strong will.

Remember one gets only retired by death until heart beats we have hope to do our best.
The world is busy with its own, sorrows and joys, and pays no heed to whatsoever one is going through. There is but one great key to unlock success and that is self-reliance, self-believe and being a warrior of life, battling with balance set of thinking and rising from defeats and get re-established again!
Many of us are gifted with rare mental strength, and unmatched potential to face every odd but fail merely in life because the only one element that’s missing is self-reliance. Once this incredible power of self-reliance is attained it would unite all the energies and  help us to focus into strength and power.


People who are not self-reliant are weak and often hesitate to take firm decisions when opportunity strike.

They fear to take a decisive step, because they dread failure, often we find them waiting for some one to advise. Barely been into balanced mindset they dare not act in accordance with thier own best judgment fearing it won’t sustain.

 They start looking for excuses to cover the fears and draw the conclusion that all the attempts were unsuccessful due to others and at the same time they feel not appreciated and not recognized. They acquire a false believe that in some subtle way as if whole world is conspiring against them. 

Whereas on the other side one who is self-reliant seeks a way to discover and conquer the strongest fears and weakness within them that keeps them from the attainment of what they are looking for.
They would inculcate the power within to battle against all the transmuting barriers. 

They understand that all the greatest men in history, in each phase of life’s circumstances have been those who had to fight against all the odds on thier way to greatness.

Defeat for them is not more than as if passing through a tunnel is to a traveler. They are aware that they must emerge again into the sunlight retrieved from a back fall with enhanced motivation and strong determination.
There is no expiry date for our dreams and we can if we have strong determination to do so.

Remember honest and true work, along with constant and sincere purposes and efforts never really fails.
Though one may get tired trying hard to get success and may attempt to give up but it should be understood that though last attempt seemed to be a wasted effort, it will prove to us a new set of thinking and learning how to walk amidst the chaos. 

Failures will prove to us the inspiration of possible successes that are yet to be explored.
No matter what statistics of failure describe to one and half-blind world of critics may be fiercely invading our peace of mind and we may feel that everything is over, but never underestimate the power of self-believe and willpower.

Failures need not dishearten us, they should prove sources of new strength. Observe the nature, it has tremendous ways to unfold the keywords that one may get inspired.
The rocky way may prove to be safe though long than the slippery path of smoothness that may be short.
Birds fly best with the wind against it. Ships do not progress when on shore they are supposed to sail, unless they sail they won’t move ahead. 

Giving up is a temporary emotional barrier and looks far more easy way but that’s not the only solution.
Stay Motivated Stay Inspired!

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Manifesting success 💠

​Thomas Edison failed 10,000 times while working on his light bulb project.

Imagine if he had quitted nobody would have witnessed the innovations & light and probably nobody would have remembered him either.

With continued failures we find quitting the best solution but remember the only key is perseverance!

We need to establish the connection between failures and successes with a changed perception of positive motivation.

A setback can be turned into a driving force all matters is positive direction and attitude that we learn from our failures and tag it as experiences. This optimistic approach is called failing forward in progress to strive for excellence!

Stay away from negative assumptions and influence as they deplete your energy and shake your confidence. Lack of focus, vision, having zero purposes and low self-esteem are key obstacles to make our goals unachievable.

We might miss to achieve excellence if we progress with lack of vision and purposes.

We have to live in the moment making a habit of doing it now, instead of making excuses to manifest the glory of success.

Success begins with a START! 

Success is overcoming failures!

Marking success as an ongoing process would determine the quality of your journey!

Keep smiling keep shining!

Inderjit Kaur

Transitions :- Walks of life

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Like water we need to keep flowing.
I learnt long before that whatever I am experiencing as a turmoil is the only result of my negative addiction. Indeed, it is very easy access for our thoughts, to be penetrative and slip into various forms of negativity. I was depressed witnessing life getting worse day by day into violence, abuses, physical, and mental tortures but I could hardly do anything. May be because it is rooted at very early age as a girl child that one has to accept, adapt, destiny to whatever it hurls after marriage. When I allowed myself to be submerged in these life draining negative thoughts, I actually left no room for peace it was self-surrender. And barely I thought more about myself now existing just was able to survive to safe guard marriage and the social stigma accepting my fate and started to continue tolerating the chaos that killed me millions of time but the smiles and the spark of life in the eyes of my kids kept me going. 
I began to take everything for granted and consider life as an easy flow. All the love and consideration is often replaced with anger that adds frustrating. At one time, the circumstances shattered me into millions of pieces and eventually led my spirit to get entangled in questions and I started to decay in this pool of depression. We do often face dilemmas sometimes unsure what will be the next move. We do get stuck in dire situations and we just are unable to figure out what next. And life gets more complex more difficult. That’s the most surprising package of life’s equations. Reoccurrence of uncertainties around you, makes you more vulnerable and pushing us into darkness and you witness yourself anchored alone at the shore of negative influences. You start losing interest in life and are not sure how long can you sustain. Saturated with dark fears, your enthusiasm fades away eventually, forcing you to be deeply unhappy.
Suffering escalates more if you’re surrounded by negative people and when nothing seems to work. I traced the negatives around me tried to capsize me in the unexplained segments of the worries.  For me worries, negative thoughts and negative people at the same time are just energy drainers. They want you to believe and perceive their perceptions. This makes you to surrender deep in depressions, thus leaving no scopes of evolution.
You got to find out the root. I started to explore myself and was keen to understand the meaning of my life and what was my purpose here. And as I began to reinvent myself in this journey I was able to search the simple meaning to the word “CHANGE” and thus I kept figuring out more and more meaning and thrived hard to seek the answer, I needed to start exploring the events, which were left behind on the last turn that I crossed I made up my mind to overcome all my setbacks and that I won’t dwell in yesterday, since it did not left behind anything to be looked upon. What ever I had was with me, was today and I decided to look upon life with altogether new perspectives. Yes, I immediately figured out the best answer and that was, “BEING POSITIVE.”

The best word of positive life was thus embossed on my soul forever I was successful to write the very positive word 
‘YES I CAN’ into my living diary, that was life and that’s how, I framed it relating as an attitude everyone should possess and the word is ‘START’. “To make a change, we need to start with a seed called desire”
When applied, I drew an affirmative conclusion regarding opportunities. We got to grow through them intentionally in positive perception, recognizing the purposes and the cause.
I had to finally decide as I figured out that life could get even worse. I started studying the concept of being positive more closely. I started with a small change initially and the first thought I choose was to ignore immediate decisions for the troubled issues. I stayed calm, I learned to be more in patience by now and this worked  effectively and I started trying my best to give time to myself before any decisions or reactions.  Positive thinking is not done overnight; it takes time.
I began reading all I could find on being positive – Books, web, newspaper articles. It is evident that yes some words do make an impact and that’s what exactly happened. Sceptical at first, finally I got its influence overtaking all my sheltered concepts. I began with a new routine added in my stressed life and that was music.
I kept myself occupied with some soft music that helped me not only de-stress, but I could feel the changes.
I began to seek better options in all the problems that once were pretending that they would never get resolved.
Using this positive concept as a tool, I started the change that I was seeking from past two decades and I did manage to walk my life and was very certain that I am going to somehow get healed. Healing from a stressed life did not happen overnight and all of sudden. Yes, it took interminably long, but it happened. In order to be facing the life tragedies one has to harness the unique and irreplaceable quality of self believe, one must always be well prepared to face the unexpected with more confidence and optimism.
It is hard but not impossible a start, a begin is all that is required to straighten the crooked thinking sometimes.
And thus the walks in transitions would reflect the very true purpose of life..

Keep smiling keep shining!

Inderjit Kaur

Think about it!

The best way to rise from defeat  is to remember why you started it initially. As I do believe that every obstacle in our path is just  a reminder to go back and reignite that spark that holds the inscription code for you to start your journey that was solely on your choices to mark a change thus making your presence in the  journal of life.
Other wise we all are just surviving not living…
Think about it!

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Keep smiling keep shining
Inderjit Kaur

Inderjit Kaur

Transitions : Facts- Lessons of life

Judgement can be disadvantage if your head is clouded.

Emotions are enemies of every tough decision.

You don’t have to have it all figured out to move forward.
Sometimes we just need to walk quiet.

Exhausting is okay. It means you’re in the game. You’re on the way up and you’re not on the way down-

Self improvement is a never ending task. Always try to make better self from yesterday.

Don’t waste time grieving over past mistakes. Learn from them and walk ahead.

The best thing about the past is that it shows you what you’re not supposed to inherent into your future.

When everybody fails you, never forget that you have yourself.
Believe in self.

The experience of a major disappointment is complex and confusing at times.

When things fail it’s normal to feel insecure and anxious
take it as a  part of the process, soon they’re faded off.

Sometimes we can’t figure out what when how we would achieve in our lives but at this point we are aware what we can overcome and that’s a small victory in itself.

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A living series
Inderjit kaur

Inderjit Kaur

A writer’s life fanciful adventure?

A writer who encapsulates the lore of some past and present events or probably coherent the enchanting tales in his or her story is not sure if the work  would be accepted by the readers.

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At times he or she is happy to get a hamburger and fries with the royalty cheque.
In India we can manage at least one wada pav. Well the issue is not the reduced numbers of books from the bookshelves but the credit goes to the technical aspects of fast paced life.
Lack of time and change of personal choices hardly I see any book lover as earlier times.
All those who managed to get the names established via brand names extraordinarily were lucky enough.
We writers are storytellers  who instill hope again and again and again.
With every word we write we try to write better than the previous so that the finished work is an eye catch for the readers.
It takes almost average 6 months to a year to write an average book and anycase any genre. Hardly I came across to some of the writers who could write up in a month or two.
Thus the bottom line is it takes a great time and efforts for the writing to make it best thought provoking or captivating or a page turner.
Writers are patient and work effectively and I’m so proud to be able to be counted as one of them.
The amount of time and energy required to get from chapter 1st to 2nd and so on is just priceless. Writers do a tremendous job to pan out the stories, chapters, plots, characters, imaginations, connectedness, also at times plan on the walls or working place mapping out the story so that our readers get a awesome read.
But writers do get low at times when the book doesn’t go well with sales.
We tend to make failures very personal. Yes I do agree picking yourself up and dusting yourself off  isn’t that easy. It’s easy to imagine but much more difficult to do in practice.
The only reason why we do pursue our dreams is first we must accept the fact that our egos want us to dream big as they believe we can accomplish great things and there’s nothing wrong with that as great things do desire that greatness. This leads us to achieve our goals and we do accomplish things others believed to be impossible.
So to all my writing fraternity be aware of the little things that provides an easy way to get the best and  the most.
Let’s celebrate little victories. What does this little victory do?
Well they allow you and me to gain momentum.
With each little win we tend to feel more comfortable and positive about ourselves.
We can now once again find the same enthusiasm and are passionate about our work.
We feel reinvigorated and tend to seek fascination in our work and indirectly our journey as an writer.
Without this gained momentum we would have given up so very easily at first place finding no solace in life.
This little wins boost us reminding us that greater victories are lying ahead comforting us to stick around and not letting us to give up.
Little victories make us learn more about life uncertainties and makes failures bearable.
Be privileged to be able to offer the best of your abilities.
Three cheers to my writer friends.

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Take care
Keep smiling keep shining.
Inderjit Kaur