Shift your life, Master your mindset, battleproof your confidence.

We all have the ability to pivot under any conditions and remember that circumstances do not make a man, they reveal him.

By feeling cheerful throughout the day, we become an Instrument of peace. Spend some time in silence it is most powerful and rewarding experience.

Nothing you do will make everything perfect.Your job is to live your best life not suffer because sometimes we need to just realize that how little we need in order to be satisfied and at peace.

Stop being upset about everything as it would not respond the way we expect to. Hard but that’s life all about! Accept the truth and be grateful, for your life matters.

Distance yourself for a while from the things that make you feel low or negative influence as they would only drain your energy.

Focus only on what can be changed and don’t dwell on why things didn’t work or what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do from here onwards move on is not easy it would take some time.

Spend your energy moving forward seeking the opportunity to work best when everything fails.

When we get stuck into downfalls or failure or heartbreak we believe that life is all about that’s past but the truth is life is about present circumstances.

We need to be complied with the new beginning letting go that doesn’t reflect the growth that which remains stagnant, just let it go. When we let go we believe in self, we believe that there is a bright tomorrow.

Remember peace of mind is when we are able to live in the present moment.


Take charge of your life now! 

Master your mindset, battleproof your confidence, own your highest power to wake up each day radiating hope, strength, wisdom and love, regardless of whether you’re at the peak of the mountain or lost in the valley of heartbreak.

Focus to live the rest of your life at iconic levels of happiness, prosperity and influence.


Smile and overcome your challenges, no matter what your troubles are, there are people who are experiencing much worse.

It is human tendency that when bad things happen to us, we overlook the fact that even the most vibrantly successful people deal with challenges, troubles, and setbacks only the difference between those individuals who soldier on until they achieve their goals and those who give up is the determination.

The goal is not to change who you are but to become more of who you are at your best while facing adversities and life challenges!

Remember a bad day is simply a test of your patience and commitment as long as you stay dedicated to the task at hand, you’ll shake off negative feelings and get the job done even when things conspire against you.

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Be like an oak!

One of the best tool to truly achieve what you dream about is one must be self-reliant. Being so is not the self-sufficiency of conceit, rather it a dare to stand alone. Be like an oak, vast, strong and firm, not like a vine which clings to get support.

 

Perhaps be ready to give support, be ready to help others as far as possible, but do not crave it.
Develop your true self-reliance, by looking with a different perspective on life, that it is a battle one must fight.

Be your own soldier, there can be no substitute for you or never be placed on the retired list unless we fight our own struggle with strong will.

Remember one gets only retired by death until heart beats we have hope to do our best.
The world is busy with its own, sorrows and joys, and pays no heed to whatsoever one is going through. There is but one great key to unlock success and that is self-reliance, self-believe and being a warrior of life, battling with balance set of thinking and rising from defeats and get re-established again!
Many of us are gifted with rare mental strength, and unmatched potential to face every odd but fail merely in life because the only one element that’s missing is self-reliance. Once this incredible power of self-reliance is attained it would unite all the energies and  help us to focus into strength and power.


People who are not self-reliant are weak and often hesitate to take firm decisions when opportunity strike.

They fear to take a decisive step, because they dread failure, often we find them waiting for some one to advise. Barely been into balanced mindset they dare not act in accordance with thier own best judgment fearing it won’t sustain.

 They start looking for excuses to cover the fears and draw the conclusion that all the attempts were unsuccessful due to others and at the same time they feel not appreciated and not recognized. They acquire a false believe that in some subtle way as if whole world is conspiring against them. 

Whereas on the other side one who is self-reliant seeks a way to discover and conquer the strongest fears and weakness within them that keeps them from the attainment of what they are looking for.
They would inculcate the power within to battle against all the transmuting barriers. 

They understand that all the greatest men in history, in each phase of life’s circumstances have been those who had to fight against all the odds on thier way to greatness.

Defeat for them is not more than as if passing through a tunnel is to a traveler. They are aware that they must emerge again into the sunlight retrieved from a back fall with enhanced motivation and strong determination.
There is no expiry date for our dreams and we can if we have strong determination to do so.

Remember honest and true work, along with constant and sincere purposes and efforts never really fails.
Though one may get tired trying hard to get success and may attempt to give up but it should be understood that though last attempt seemed to be a wasted effort, it will prove to us a new set of thinking and learning how to walk amidst the chaos. 

Failures will prove to us the inspiration of possible successes that are yet to be explored.
No matter what statistics of failure describe to one and half-blind world of critics may be fiercely invading our peace of mind and we may feel that everything is over, but never underestimate the power of self-believe and willpower.

Failures need not dishearten us, they should prove sources of new strength. Observe the nature, it has tremendous ways to unfold the keywords that one may get inspired.
The rocky way may prove to be safe though long than the slippery path of smoothness that may be short.
Birds fly best with the wind against it. Ships do not progress when on shore they are supposed to sail, unless they sail they won’t move ahead. 

Giving up is a temporary emotional barrier and looks far more easy way but that’s not the only solution.
Stay Motivated Stay Inspired!

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Becoming undefeatable when times are volatile!

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“Life is treating me well and truly stunning!”

That’s a self note I never forget to include in my daily routine.
Life is becoming increasingly difficult and chaotic with the increased volatile times.
While we are going through the inevitable sufferings we can still manage to hardwire some core concept of being undefeated.
Well to massively improve life one has to pursue their mighty missions and include discipline as the core element.
The second element to contemplate the same is self believe to dramatically raise yourself from the self constructed limits.

Everyone is going through some inner battles to strive thus one can re module life by acceptance of self analysis as the basic strategy.
Modelling their greatest skills and experience one can optimistically drive and influence life and change the status quo.
Nurturing self believe and discipline create a  truly phenomenal lifestyle and stay undefeated when times are volatile!

Here are some of the most important tips that would be helpful to create a magical mindset!

Discipline is training yourself with setting up some rules and restrictions on the way that would improve your skills.
Discipline would convert your attempt into achievement.

Self belief that the you’re capable of handling the crisis your mind is developed to acquire strategies to leap from average to epic and you are sufficient to reinforce some breakthrough ideas.

Remember self believe is a learnable trait just stalk the thought that’s indestructible.
Self believe is directly proportioned with actions and thoughts conceived.

Just because you might lack self belief now doesn’t have to be the reason to give up.
Culture the skill set some priorities and grow beyond the horizon.

Thus this implies that you got to
work on you regardless of many flaws relentless by constantly learning and taking action, you will be able to eventually get a tangible result for the  crisis.

This subsequently transmits a  notion cabling belief that you can actually do it, thus you’re wired now to focus.

When I started getting my first few leads online for aiding the help for those who are depressed and finding hard to move on I had a stark realization  and that hit me like a ton of loads that I could actually do this.
I regained my inner self recollecting the strength once again to pursue my mighty mission of motivator.

You can learn to comprehend the inner voice specific your inner negative voice and chaos that rise like a giant wave increasing the inner turmoil.

We all have have limited thinking but the most debilitating destruction caused is by a confusing thoughts of negative connotations.
Since ages our brains are hardwired, according to the unseen fears.  We have developed a resistant to acceptance of life as we literally, focus on what’s negative in our circumstances.
We still are training and are progressive to inbuilt the fears in our brains, subconsciously, and we aim to focus on why the things didn’t happened as we expected and we complicated the brain with the things that went wrong during the day versus all the progress and the things that went right.

The core key to demolish that negative inner voice is first to recognize it and then re orient
it with positive information and training that combats that type of thinking exceptionally well with self talks, about self approvals and contemplating it with self believe.
Thus the inner self talk helps celebrating the progress since now our brains are hardwired for overcoming the negativity.

Thus this delivers a small win that enhances the performances and the compatibility with life is restored to another level.

The power of small win is incredible. At the end of the day,  write in a journal about it since it serves as the perfect powerful insight.

Some days are average, some are tiring but we still can manage these days and mark them as the best days, as they may leave behind some acts of incremental progress.

In my  journal I wrote,
“I was  dealing with complex issues while formatting my vision towards a better life but I made a tiny win towards the vision by feeding the indestructible point of never give up! I would be jammed by critical opponents or find hard dealing with a difficulties but I’ll some how progress in building the bridge.”

If you want to stay motivated and develop a truly focused mindset, feel incredibly alive,
feel truly inspired, and seeking to develop higher levels of driving force to stick on your best game, then we need to do this collectively together with enthusiasm.
Thus we need to celebrate every tiny win, every tiny little success and every achievement at the end of every single day!!

You want to stay on the success ride then you must celebrate successive progress on the road to recovery and you can write a note to self :
“I can do this, I will do this and nobody is going to stop me”.

This is how you deal with your inner negative voice.

At the end of your day, maybe you are going to keep some kind of a piece of paper by your bed side, maybe you do it after dinner. Write all your achievements no matter how small!

Using this renaissance and renewal of life, vigor, interest, would retrieve and life will allow you to master your self believe as a success tool and you will feel much profound thus you become undefeatable when times are chaotic and volatile!

Self talk and self disciple is one of the greatest ways you can build self belief because it is the ability towards reorientation of
your mind and heart to regain the strength and accomplish something even when you don’t feel like doing it.

If you will take these above tips and advice and collage to work for you, your self belief will incrementally increase and your results will soon follow.

No go out there and make it happen now!

Stay safe stay brave!!

A living series

Inderjit Kaur

And life goes on…

Walking the life wasn’t soothing her anymore and sadness played their chords;
She survived many storms though but pains wrecked her at last.
Just before giving up her trust she paused a while in spite of being in darkness.
Recollecting the seasons wrapped in hard and soft those were gentle and kind some time but left scars behind.
Considered now she stands to view how strong she has grown in her own shadows that made her resilient from her tests of life.
She now understood life paradigms though albeit.
She now sees that her darkness as cruel, unbearable, unkind as it seemed  always, restricted never  in contributing to all that made her complete and whole.
Thus, she now stands amidst of storms closing her eyes whispers thank you, to the dark to the light, to every tiny little things that involved in her being.
She picks her broken pieces collages them to shape in new.
She wears a smile as she writes a note to self “And life goes on…”
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Transitions :- Walks of life

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Like water we need to keep flowing.
I learnt long before that whatever I am experiencing as a turmoil is the only result of my negative addiction. Indeed, it is very easy access for our thoughts, to be penetrative and slip into various forms of negativity. I was depressed witnessing life getting worse day by day into violence, abuses, physical, and mental tortures but I could hardly do anything. May be because it is rooted at very early age as a girl child that one has to accept, adapt, destiny to whatever it hurls after marriage. When I allowed myself to be submerged in these life draining negative thoughts, I actually left no room for peace it was self-surrender. And barely I thought more about myself now existing just was able to survive to safe guard marriage and the social stigma accepting my fate and started to continue tolerating the chaos that killed me millions of time but the smiles and the spark of life in the eyes of my kids kept me going. 
I began to take everything for granted and consider life as an easy flow. All the love and consideration is often replaced with anger that adds frustrating. At one time, the circumstances shattered me into millions of pieces and eventually led my spirit to get entangled in questions and I started to decay in this pool of depression. We do often face dilemmas sometimes unsure what will be the next move. We do get stuck in dire situations and we just are unable to figure out what next. And life gets more complex more difficult. That’s the most surprising package of life’s equations. Reoccurrence of uncertainties around you, makes you more vulnerable and pushing us into darkness and you witness yourself anchored alone at the shore of negative influences. You start losing interest in life and are not sure how long can you sustain. Saturated with dark fears, your enthusiasm fades away eventually, forcing you to be deeply unhappy.
Suffering escalates more if you’re surrounded by negative people and when nothing seems to work. I traced the negatives around me tried to capsize me in the unexplained segments of the worries.  For me worries, negative thoughts and negative people at the same time are just energy drainers. They want you to believe and perceive their perceptions. This makes you to surrender deep in depressions, thus leaving no scopes of evolution.
You got to find out the root. I started to explore myself and was keen to understand the meaning of my life and what was my purpose here. And as I began to reinvent myself in this journey I was able to search the simple meaning to the word “CHANGE” and thus I kept figuring out more and more meaning and thrived hard to seek the answer, I needed to start exploring the events, which were left behind on the last turn that I crossed I made up my mind to overcome all my setbacks and that I won’t dwell in yesterday, since it did not left behind anything to be looked upon. What ever I had was with me, was today and I decided to look upon life with altogether new perspectives. Yes, I immediately figured out the best answer and that was, “BEING POSITIVE.”

The best word of positive life was thus embossed on my soul forever I was successful to write the very positive word 
‘YES I CAN’ into my living diary, that was life and that’s how, I framed it relating as an attitude everyone should possess and the word is ‘START’. “To make a change, we need to start with a seed called desire”
When applied, I drew an affirmative conclusion regarding opportunities. We got to grow through them intentionally in positive perception, recognizing the purposes and the cause.
I had to finally decide as I figured out that life could get even worse. I started studying the concept of being positive more closely. I started with a small change initially and the first thought I choose was to ignore immediate decisions for the troubled issues. I stayed calm, I learned to be more in patience by now and this worked  effectively and I started trying my best to give time to myself before any decisions or reactions.  Positive thinking is not done overnight; it takes time.
I began reading all I could find on being positive – Books, web, newspaper articles. It is evident that yes some words do make an impact and that’s what exactly happened. Sceptical at first, finally I got its influence overtaking all my sheltered concepts. I began with a new routine added in my stressed life and that was music.
I kept myself occupied with some soft music that helped me not only de-stress, but I could feel the changes.
I began to seek better options in all the problems that once were pretending that they would never get resolved.
Using this positive concept as a tool, I started the change that I was seeking from past two decades and I did manage to walk my life and was very certain that I am going to somehow get healed. Healing from a stressed life did not happen overnight and all of sudden. Yes, it took interminably long, but it happened. In order to be facing the life tragedies one has to harness the unique and irreplaceable quality of self believe, one must always be well prepared to face the unexpected with more confidence and optimism.
It is hard but not impossible a start, a begin is all that is required to straighten the crooked thinking sometimes.
And thus the walks in transitions would reflect the very true purpose of life..

Keep smiling keep shining!

Inderjit Kaur

Think about it!

The best way to rise from defeat  is to remember why you started it initially. As I do believe that every obstacle in our path is just  a reminder to go back and reignite that spark that holds the inscription code for you to start your journey that was solely on your choices to mark a change thus making your presence in the  journal of life.
Other wise we all are just surviving not living…
Think about it!

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Keep smiling keep shining
Inderjit Kaur

Inderjit Kaur

Transitions : Facts- Lessons of life

Judgement can be disadvantage if your head is clouded.

Emotions are enemies of every tough decision.

You don’t have to have it all figured out to move forward.
Sometimes we just need to walk quiet.

Exhausting is okay. It means you’re in the game. You’re on the way up and you’re not on the way down-

Self improvement is a never ending task. Always try to make better self from yesterday.

Don’t waste time grieving over past mistakes. Learn from them and walk ahead.

The best thing about the past is that it shows you what you’re not supposed to inherent into your future.

When everybody fails you, never forget that you have yourself.
Believe in self.

The experience of a major disappointment is complex and confusing at times.

When things fail it’s normal to feel insecure and anxious
take it as a  part of the process, soon they’re faded off.

Sometimes we can’t figure out what when how we would achieve in our lives but at this point we are aware what we can overcome and that’s a small victory in itself.

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A living series
Inderjit kaur

Inderjit Kaur